Bear???????????????

After my weekend in penang, i dare not step up the scale, fearing i will see a huge increase for my weight. In penang, my stomach is always full, once there are any empty space i will fill it up with food. I even finished a whole bar of chocolate (the big one) for the weekend. I ate like 10 bak chang. IN short, i feed like a pig. My pants are tighter so i am sure there is increase.To make up for all the weight gain, I went to gym yesterday in midvalley for bodypump, steps and some weight training. I went the with my lowest self confidence. In the bodypump class, i was standing in front of a bald uncle. He looked a bit masculine but certainly not my cup of tea. From the moment i stepped in, i noticed those pair of eyes staring at me. I doubt it at first but as the class progress, i his stares just get obvious. I am facing the mirror so i can see from the mirror that he is looking at me during the squats. It made me lose my concentration and gave up at the bottomhalf. I do not response to his stares because that would lead him to talk to me and i am not in the mood (and body) for any hookups. Thats always the case if you response to those type of stares. When the class end, he come to me and asked me "Are you new to cali midvalley" ,"never seen you here before" . I response by telling him , i originally from fitness first and i usually go to cali in standard chart bldg. We chatted a while while waiting for the step class to start. Thank god finally nic came in and i tell him i have to go. I am stump at his next line. He smile and said
"You are a really cute bear, you know" "you want to go out for a drink later?"

Wait uncle, didnt anything in my face spell out GAY???? What if i am straight?? i will just land a punch on your face. Am i suppose to take that as compliment???!!!!! Bear????????????? I am so not into the 'bear' type and this uncle go and tell me i am a cute bear. I am so insulted. I just gained weight over the weekend and feeling a little depressed, here you go calling me a bear. I told him i have plans and just said "maybe somewhere next week" . I said a quick bye and ran into the step class. He watched a while from outside and then dissapear.
I am going for yoga and fly wheel tonite. Hope not the meet this uncle again.